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  • Keep it simple
    Laundry, Simplicity

    Keep it simple

    September 19, 2025

    I got berry stains on my favorite dress! Wat should I do? I am so glad that you…


  • Ensure you are seeing clearly, then act with integrity
    Integrity, Making assumptions, Mean people

    Ensure you are seeing clearly, then act with integrity

    September 18, 2025

    People often say hurtful things to me and I feel like I just have to put up with…


  • Might it be possible that you aren’t the problem and neither are they?
    Blame & Responsibility

    Might it be possible that you aren’t the problem and neither are they?

    May 7, 2025

    Nobody is taking responsibility. what should I do? Not everybody is like you. I know that might sound…


  • Act with Integrity Even When Those Around You Choose Not to
    Mean people

    Act with Integrity Even When Those Around You Choose Not to

    March 24, 2025

    Sometimes people say the meanest things to me. What should I Do? That’s a great question – it…


  • Just be yourself
    Trying to be perfect

    Just be yourself

    March 14, 2025

    I’m so tired of trying to become a better person. What should I do? “I can’t remember what…


  • Everything worth doing takes practice
    Compassion

    Everything worth doing takes practice

    March 7, 2025

    I want to be more compassionate, but I don’t know where to start. What should I do? In…


  • Silence is powerful – use it wisely
    Silence

    Silence is powerful – use it wisely

    February 28, 2025

    People tell me that being silent is virtuous, but I hate it when people stop talking to me.…


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Cary Rinken

Hi, my name is Cary RInken and I respond to questions I’ve been asked and questions I’ve been asking for years. I hope you enjoy!

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