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Might it be possible that you aren’t the problem and neither are they?
Nobody is taking responsibility. what should I do? Not everybody is like you. I know that might sound…
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Act with Integrity Even When Those Around You Choose Not to
Sometimes people say the meanest things to me. What should I Do? That’s a great question – it…
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Just be yourself
I’m so tired of trying to become a better person. What should I do? “I can’t remember what…
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Everything worth doing takes practice
I want to be more compassionate, but I don’t know where to start. What should I do? In…
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Silence is powerful – use it wisely
People tell me that being silent is virtuous, but I hate it when people stop talking to me.…
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Turning on the Light
I know that I have problems to deal with, but I feel like if I talk about them,…
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You can forgive from a distance – taking care of yourself is most important
I want to be forgiving but sometimes the people I’ve forgiven continue to treat me badly. What should…
Cary Rinken
Hi, my name is Cary RInken and I respond to questions I’ve been asked and questions I’ve been asking for years. I hope you enjoy!
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