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Choose to face the situation directly – it might not be as scary as you think
When people get upset with me, I don’t know how to handle it and I tend to run…
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Being a “better” person isn’t all about how you treat others – you have to treat yourself well first
I’ve been trying so hard to grow and become a better person but people are still not treating…
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Start letting yourself be honest, if only with yourself – eventually your voice will grow louder than the other voices
I don’t know what I want from my life. All I can hear are other people’s voices in…
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Camouflage only works in the woods (aka stop pretending and just start being yourself)
I keep scaring people off somehow, even when I’m trying so hard to keep them around. What do…
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Stop trying to suppress every little thing
I’m so anxious and I don’t know why. What do you think? The bad news is that I…
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Dare to ask the question
I have an interview coming up and I think I should wear professional attire, but I’m going to…
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Focus on being respectable and respectful (the rest will follow)
Question: I feel so conflicted about obeying authority figures, because I haven’t had great role models in my…
Cary Rinken
Hi, my name is Cary RInken and I respond to questions I’ve been asked and questions I’ve been asking for years. I hope you enjoy!
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