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Sometimes all you can do is bring your own light
I’m going off to college and I’m afraid that I’m not going to like my dorm or my…
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A little goes a long way, Choose your focus, Featured, Just Be, Let’s rethink that, Living in the middleSomewhere between good and bad is where life actually happens
I’m graduating from college and I’m happy, but I’m also sad. I got offered a job in the…
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Defend against defensiveness without losing your integrity
I keep encountering highly defensive people, people that seem to take everything I say out of context and…
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The power is yours: You don’t choose how you’re treated, but you do choose what comes next
I’ve been targeted by bullies more than I care to admit. Even my parents kind of bullied me. …
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Be Kind, Choose You, Choose your focus, Compassion, Integrity, Let’s rethink that, Mean people, Take care of your self, Trust yourselfA Little Goes a Long Way: Navigating Mean Girl Energy with Compassion, Discernment, and Strength
I seem to keep encountering mean girl energy, everywhere I look. It’s making me feel crazy. What can…
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What I ended up believing about God: From driftwood to shimmering threads
Mom, are you religious? I wish I was religious. I think it would make life so much easier. …
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Estrangement was the outcome, not the decision
I am angry with my family/friend and wanting to cut them off. I know that you cut off…
Cary Rinken
Hi, my name is Cary RInken and I respond to questions I’ve been asked and questions I’ve been asking for years. I hope you enjoy!
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