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You’re Snazzier Than You Think You Are
It’s true. Even if you think that you are VERY SNAZZY, you are snazzier than you think you…
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Practicing New Skills
Starting something new can be terrifying. Especially starting out from scratch when you feel like you should be…
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Flaws and Forgiveness
I have found throughout my life that people tend to focus on each other’s flaws. Be one of…
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Common Enemy Bonding
I have been talking about what I call “common enemy bonding” for years. It is the all too…
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When You Don’t Like Someone, Get Closer and Get Curious
When there is somebody that you vehemently don’t like (or even just don’t like a little bit), my…
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What Might Really Be Going On?
Early in my adult life I trained myself to consider or understand or assume that when people do…
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Labels
The problem with labels is that they are too simplistic. If I label you as x, y or…
Cary Rinken
Hi, my name is Cary RInken and I respond to questions I’ve been asked and questions I’ve been asking for years. I hope you enjoy!
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