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What Might Really Be Going On?
Early in my adult life I trained myself to consider or understand or assume that when people do…
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Labels
The problem with labels is that they are too simplistic. If I label you as x, y or…
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Deep End of the Pool
Sometimes it feels like we are in the deep end of the pool. In fact, we know we…
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Do Something for Others
When you are feeling down and like there is nobody to talk to, the best thing to do…
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Write an encouraging letter to a friend (and then read it to yourself)
Often when we give advice to others, it is advice that we should be giving to ourselves. When…
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How I Learned to Lighten Up
(AKA How I Learned to Do Just About Everything) When I was younger, I got hurt easily. I…
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Nice Dice
I’ve always liked to have games to play at the dinner table – games to get to know…
Cary Rinken
Hi, my name is Cary RInken and I respond to questions I’ve been asked and questions I’ve been asking for years. I hope you enjoy!
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