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When You Have Something to Say, Just Say It
Sometimes you will find yourself agonizing over something – maybe you are unhappy at work or you think…
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Head Straight Into the Discomfort
Sometimes things get uncomfortable. The art is in knowing where that line is between discomfort that you need…
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Traveling Companions
There is a piece of me that is obsessed with perfection, and fixing things that are broken. At…
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Needs
It’s ok to ask for what you need. It’s ok to need stuff. I don’t know or care…
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Defensiveness
One of the first things I chose to work on after my fateful night at the gas station…
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Comparisons
Sometimes when I tune into my ugliness, it blows me away. And sometimes when I tune into my…
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Categories
There seem to be categories of people. I don’t like to label people and I think the categories…

Cary Rinken
Hi, my name is Cary RInken and I respond to questions I’ve been asked and questions I’ve been asking for years. I hope you enjoy!
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