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Gratitude
I am grateful for many things. I am grateful for alone time. I am grateful for early mornings…
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Harmony
Harmony is beautiful. Harmony makes music. Harmony requires differences. Harmony sometimes comes in the form of tensions. Life…
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Eyeglasses Store
Suppose you are walking down the sidewalk and you decide to step into a store that claims to…
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My Feelings or Yours?
If somebody is doing something that feels hurtful or bad, the first thing to check out is whether…
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Confrontation (aka Setting a Bone)
I have often been called confrontational. I have never felt confrontational. The meaning of the word never felt…
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Oscillations
Oscillations are a normal part of life. Oscillations – the act or state of oscillating Merriam-Webster Dictionary Oscillating…
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Learn to Float
(aka Floating vs. Flailing) Let’s say you are out for a swim in the ocean and the water…

Cary Rinken
Hi, my name is Cary RInken and I respond to questions I’ve been asked and questions I’ve been asking for years. I hope you enjoy!
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