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  • Take these “friends” off their pedestal you built for them
    Communication, Head into discomfort, Integrity, Just Be, Mean people, Take care of your self, Trust yourself

    Take these “friends” off their pedestal you built for them

    October 9, 2025

    My friends keep leaving me out.  What should I do? It is so painful when you find yourself…


  • Do you really want to sit around eating bonbons all day?
    Clarity, Curiosity, Just Be, Let’s rethink that

    Do you really want to sit around eating bonbons all day?

    October 8, 2025

    People say that I should do what I love and the money will follow, but I think that…


  • There is always more to worry about
    Clarity, Just Be, Let’s rethink that, Worry

    There is always more to worry about

    October 7, 2025

    I’m so scared about [being able to retire, pay for college, buy a car, etc.] that I’m having…


  • How I turned to face my belief that credit cards were to be used liberally
    Authenticity, Avoidance, Clarity, Debt, Let’s rethink that, Making assumptions, Trust yourself

    How I turned to face my belief that credit cards were to be used liberally

    October 6, 2025

    I don’t know how to afford my life. What should I do? We all believe what we are…


  • Play the nice dice game
    Be Kind, Fun, Integrity

    Play the nice dice game

    October 3, 2025

    My kids fight at the dinner table every night. What should I do? Start playing nice dice with…


  • Be brave enough to question your thoughts
    Question your thoughts, Questions, Trust yourself

    Be brave enough to question your thoughts

    October 2, 2025

    I’m starting to wonder if what I’ve been believing is actually true. Is it possible I’ve been wrong…


  • Start trying to figure out what makes your heart flutter
    Break the rules, Joy, Just Be

    Start trying to figure out what makes your heart flutter

    October 1, 2025

    I’m so tired of following all the rules, trying to do all the right things.  I just want…


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Cary Rinken

Hi, my name is Cary RInken and I respond to questions I’ve been asked and questions I’ve been asking for years. I hope you enjoy!

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