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When in doubt, be yourself (what to wear when you don’t know what to wear)
I have this job interview (or party or networking event or wedding, etc.) to attend and I don’t…
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Are you really ready to change?
I want to change things, and I don’t know where to start. What should I do? Recognizing that…
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Choose your focus
Nobody likes me. What should I do? Choose your focus. If you are starting by believing the underlying…
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Slow down when you’re tempted to speed up
I am always losing stuff. I can’t keep track of anything. What should I do? Losing stuff can…
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Communication, Head into discomfort, Integrity, Just Be, Mean people, Take care of your self, Trust yourself
Take these “friends” off their pedestal you built for them
My friends keep leaving me out. What should I do? It is so painful when you find yourself…
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Do you really want to sit around eating bonbons all day?
People say that I should do what I love and the money will follow, but I think that…

Cary Rinken
Hi, my name is Cary RInken and I respond to questions I’ve been asked and questions I’ve been asking for years. I hope you enjoy!
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