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Worrying About Myself
I’ve spent so much time and energy worrying about what others think of me that I haven’t spent…
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Forgiveness and Dreams
It’s easy to struggle with the concept of forgiveness vs. being a doormat. And I envision three scenarios:…
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Never Quit on the Uphill
One day in my late-30’s, I had a friend ask me to run a 5K with her. Out…
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Depression
Sometimes I think I’m surrounded my depression, and am doomed to be so for the rest of my…
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Safety
As a general rule, people are motivated to keep themselves safe. Emotionally safe, physically safe, any-other-type of safe. …
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Platitudes
For so many years, I heard platitudes, sayings, quotes – I took them all in. I “believed” them. …
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Self-Compassion
Having self compassion, compassion for you, used to sound insane to me. It sounded a lot like “Love…
Cary Rinken
Hi, my name is Cary RInken and I respond to questions I’ve been asked and questions I’ve been asking for years. I hope you enjoy!
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